Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
Here author tells a story- men used to live on mars, and women used to live on Venus. Men saw women and came to meet them. They fell in love with each other. They decided to live on earth thereafter. They forgot that those are different from each other. They started fighting with each other. And they are still fighting.
Remember Your Differences
Without knowing that we are different from each other, we will keep fighting with each other for life. We usually want to change our partner according to us, but that is not possible. And as a result, we fight. But when you understand that both men and women are from different planets, you can live happily ever after.
2 – MR. FIX-IT & MRS. “HOME IMPROVEMENT COMMITTEE”
Women’s often complains that a man does not listen to them properly. Men ignore women. Whenever she tells him her problem, he listens for some time and after that he starts giving solutions or how to fix it like tactic. While women want him to just listen, not to give her solutions. On the other hand men tend to keep their problems to themselves; they don’t show it to anyone else unless it becomes a necessity. He thinks like, why should I tell it to someone when I alone can fix it.
3 – MEN GOES TO THEIR CAVE AND WOMEN SPEAKS TOO MUCH
The biggest difference between men and women is the way they handle stress. Men focus his attention on his problem, and cut himself from outer world. While women want to tell her problems to others, women want to share her sorrow. Men tend to solve it alone while women wants to talk to everybody about problems.
4 – HOW TO ENCOURAGE PARTNER
Men find motivated when they feel like someone needs them while women feel motivated when they feel like they are being loved, being pampered. When a man feel like his wife does not need him, he feels worthless. When a woman feels like her husband does not love her, she got mentally breakdown. When men feel his wife needs him and when women feels she is being loved, it makes a perfect relationship.
Everybody Will Get Tired When Tested Too Much
Most women are givers. They try to give everything their loved once. But as a men we should understand that everybody has a limit. Women are known for sacrifices. But they too have their own limits. They also need time for themselves so that they can pay attention to themselves. They need a men who can support them emotionally, they don’t want a men who becomes an emotional libality.
5 – BOTH SPEAKS DIFFERENT LANGUAGES
When men and women speaks same words, it does not mean same. For example- when a women says “you never listen to what I have to say”, they really want to say “sometimes you don’t listen to me: but what men don’t get it and this make matter worse. Women uses many words like this to freely and fully express themselves but man take it as it was said.
6 – MEN ARE LIKE RUBBER BAND
Men are like rubber band. They go away from you to, as much they can, than they again come close to you. Men are not like women. A woman goes away from a man when she feels cheated, or when they don’t trust their man. But man does it frequently, even women does nothing wrong to him. He does it to fulfill his will of freedom. When he goes away, he realizes, how important this relationship was for him.
7 – WOMEN ARE LIKE WAVES
Women are like waves. Their mood can change in no time. Sometimes up , sometimes down. When they goes down,it feel like going down into a well. This time they feel irritable, moody, alone. But when she comes out of well , she becomes all fine. When a women’s mood is not okay, a men should support her emotionally and understand her.
What Men Should Understand
If a man could help her woman emotionally, that would be good. It will not solve her problems, but it will help her come out of her emotional well. 2- He should know that he is not responsible for this situation so he should her express his love to her freely. 3- Woman will be normal again. Just give her time and sympathy
Money Can Also Create Problems
Many men complaints, they were poor when they got married. Their wife used to complaint about financial problems. But many of them says, after getting rich, things even got worse. They say, they were even more happy when they were poor. Men should understand that does not matter if you are rich or poor, women needs emotional support first, she needs a caring one, a listening one.
8 – BOTH HAVE DIFFERENT EMOTIONAL NEEDS
Here Are Some Of Basic Needs For Men And Women
1. Women wants to be taken care while men want someone to believe in him.
2. woman wants to be understood while men wants to be accepted as he is.
3. Women wants to be respected while men wants to be appreciated.
4. Women wants loyalty while men wants praises.
5. women wants to be supported while men wants someone to be satisfied with him.
6. women need assurance, men wants encouragement.
9 – HOW TO PREVENT YOURSELF FROM AN ARGUMENT
The biggest challenge in a relationship is the challenge of arguments. Often both partners start a conversation and get into a debate. Both points out each other’s mistakes and make situation worse. Since conversations the most essential factor of any relationship, debate is the most destructive thing. The golden rule is to prevent yourself from a debate. Instead think calmly about what could be done in order to make it a good conversation. Some people don’t get in debate but they go in silent mode. And this leads to a cold war.
10 – HOW A MAN CAN WIN A WOMEN’S HEART
Men thinks like if he does something bigger for his partner, like buying a car, going on a holiday trip, only than she will be happy. He assumes that little things like opening doors for her, giving her roses , these thing will not make any difference. But things does not work this way. Women gives same number to every work done for her. Does not matter if it is a bigger favor or a little favor.
11 -WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY, WRITE A LOVE LETTER
Whenever you are angry, frustrated and it is impossible for you to speak some words of love, just write a love letter. It may sounds like an old school thing. But trust me, it really works. It will also improvr both of your moods. In a love letter focus on these five factors, explain these in you letter, angriness , sadness, fear, regret, and love. Explain your partner why you got angry. Tell them that you are sad. Tell them you are scared of losing them, it will really make them feel good. Show them you regret for what you did. And in the last tell them how much you love them. Its that simple